A Colorado sex worker has alleged that Bryon Noem used a phone number linked to his insurance business for paid calls over an extended period. This information comes from a recent interview that reveals his reported interest in transitioning and an enduring online relationship with a dominatrix. These claims bring increased attention to his wife, Kristi Noem, the former Homeland Security Secretary, known for her anti-trans policies, with new ethical and security questions arising for her family.
Shy Sotomayor, known online as dominatrix Raelynn Riley, spoke with Uncloseted Media about Bryon Noem’s repeated contacts through a number associated with Noem Insurance Group. Sotomayor provided recordings and messages she claims document years of paid calls and personal dialogue. The phone number in question matches one previously linked to Bryon Noem in an April report by The Independent, which also examined messages about his desire for feminization and to be called “Crystal.” Though he denied the allegations, calling them “not all true,” Bryon Noem hasn’t specified parts he disputes. Newsweek sought comments from Bryon Noem and Kristi Noem’s representative via text and email.
Who Is Kristi Noem’s Husband, Bryon?
Bryon Noem, aged 56, is a South Dakota insurance executive who has stayed out of the public eye despite his wife’s prominent political career. Married for over 30 years, they have consistently portrayed themselves as a conservative Christian family. This image is now questioned as multiple women allege he engaged in paid online relationships under pseudonyms like “Crystal,” and using an email with “Chrystalballz666.” These sessions reportedly focused on feminization and transition-related fantasies.
In an interview, Sotomayor stated, “He repeatedly asked to go by Crystal. He said, ‘I will be your trans girl.’” She initially discovered his identity only after reviewing a PayPal invoice where he neglected to switch aliases.
Kristi Noem Husband Controversy: What We Know
Sotomayor claimed that Bryon Noem paid her tens of thousands over nearly a decade, initially via Amazon gift cards and later through digital platforms. She noted his business phone use for arranging calls and payments, drawing attention from ethics and security experts. A former CIA officer told the Daily Mail such conduct might expose vulnerabilities if identified by a hostile intelligence service. Sotomayor described Noem as a “loose cannon” who continued contacting her despite increasing reports, showing little concern about exposure.
These allegations conflict with Kristi Noem’s political record. As South Dakota governor, she enacted laws restricting gender-affirming care for minors, limited trans participation in sports, and allowed businesses to deny services to LGBTQ people. “I knew he was in my DMs saying, ‘I want to be trans, bimbo, I want to get hair implants, I wanna get breast implants, I wanna do all of this kind of transitioning,’” Sotomayor said. She added that in public, Noem portrayed unwavering support for his wife’s policies, stating, “Oh, my wife is God’s gift to me, and she’s right in everything that she does.”
Sotomayor further described him as unconcerned about being discovered, recounting, “Anytime I talked to him and was like, ‘Hey, people could find us out,’ he’s like, ‘I don’t care.’”
When and Why Was Kristi Noem Fired?
Kristi Noem was removed as Secretary of Homeland Security in March after facing internal criticism, congressional scrutiny, and fallout over immigration enforcement. President Donald Trump reassigned her to a diplomatic position soon after. Her removal coincided with initial reports of her husband’s alleged online activities. Sotomayor expressed fears of retaliation due to Kristi Noem’s oversight of ICE operations, especially since she lived near a Colorado detention center.
Understanding “Bimbofication”
“Bimbofication” involves exaggerated femininity, often through hyper-stylized or sexualized appearances. Women who interacted with Noem assert he expressed desires for implants, facial feminization, hair changes, and clothing aligned with this aesthetic. Sotomayor claimed Noem frequently used feminine language to describe himself in sessions, suggesting a deep-seated fixation beyond fantasy.
What Happens Next
As more details surface and additional women come forward, Bryon Noem faces growing scrutiny regarding his actions, use of business resources, and potential effects on his wife’s political career. Both Bryon and Kristi Noem have yet to provide comprehensive public responses.
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