Dear Carolyn,
The writer expresses concern over their sister Eileen’s relationship with food. From childhood, Eileen struggled with weight because of differing parental approaches to eating. While their mother promoted healthy eating and exercise, their father presented an array of sweets and junk food. Eileen often overindulged during visits with their father, leading to weight gain.
Despite trying various diets over the years, Eileen found success in a behavior modification program. Her participation in the program, starting three years ago, resulted in significant weight loss. She now feels and looks healthier.
However, the writer is worried about Eileen’s rigid approach to food and her resistance to discussing it. This concern arises from observing Eileen’s discomfort and avoidance of conversations about her eating habits.

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